Pick a day to come hang. A visit is 20 to 40 minutes of low-stakes heroism: refill my water, knock out a lap of dishes, or just sit there being an emotional support human while I narrate the saga of my organs. Claim a day, tell me what you're down for, and add it to your own calendar so future-you actually remembers. (Reminder: anything over 5 pounds is legally cursed, I am not allowed to lift it, and will need help.)